How Connection Carries Us
On friendship, love, and the power of shared bonds
We’re sharing this message on Yule, the Winter Solstice, intentionally.
Yule is a threshold.
It isn’t about brightness yet.
It’s about togetherness in the dark. Fires shared. Stories told. Bonds remembered.
This is why this message feels so timely. When the nights are longest, we are not meant to endure them alone.
Yule marks the longest night, a pause in the cycle, the moment when the dark stops deepening and the world begins to shift toward light.
It’s a time that has always invited people to gather, to tend what connects them, and to lean a little more closely into shared warmth and support.
This message from the Lumer Council feels right for this day. A reminder that unity isn’t an abstract idea, it’s a bond, and that bond carries us while the light finds its way back.
🌊 Lumer Council Message
You can also watch the video of the channeled message in the podcast episode, Lemurian Channeling: On friendship, love, and the power of shared bonds.
Welcome once again.
We are the Lumer Council of the Lemurian Collective, and we are so honored to be speaking with you again, and so honored that you take the time with us.
Tonight, we want to discuss an important issue, the issue of what some call camaraderie, others call friendship. We like to see it as another form of unity.
Unity comes in many forms. We’ve talked about union of teams. We’ve talked about uniting with colleagues to work in tandem to reach, reach the same goals for an organization.
But now we’d like to get a little more personal about unity with friends, with loved ones.
We see unity as a bond.
A bond on a scale where it can be super close with one another. A bond where you would die for one another. And on the other end is a bond where once we meet a certain goal, we can part ways, but we’re still connected.
Never forget, no matter how strong the bonds, we are always connected.
But now we’d like to focus on that very special bond. That bond where we watch after our loved ones, watch over those who are closest to us.
It is a bond that should not be taken for granted, yet it’s also a bond that should not be manipulated or taken advantage of.
This bond is one of true love. It’s an unconditional love.
It’s a love where you are bonded with someone, not in spite of their faults.
Not that you’re tolerating their faults, but it’s a love that you accept their faults because those faults may not even be faults.
Those faults may be their true selves.
And we have learned through love that if we change our perspective on these so-called faults, we see them many times as strengths.
Strengths that will not only help your loved one, but strengths that will also help you.
These are strengths that sometimes may be irritating to you, and other times may be very motivational to you and inspirational.
Look for the ways that support comes through these so-called weaknesses, because they are not weaknesses.
When people are being their true selves, especially ones who are close to you and you’re close to them, and they’re making themselves vulnerable to you, take that as a special gift.
Keep an open heart and an open mind, because that bond comes together and connects not only between two souls, but also with Source.
“Where two or more are gathered.”
That is what is said, that is said because it is the truth.
Where two or more are gathered is where that Power is at.
Not gathered just physically, but gathered in heart, mind, and soul.
So as you go about your days and your lives, one way to help guide you to the higher consciousness in which you are evolving is to lean on the support of the others. Those close others.
The loved ones, the ones you were bonded with, lean on them for the support. And they will lean on you.
And with that, the Power will surge. Creation will manifest.
And you and your loved ones will evolve together, evolve to higher consciousness,
and be that much more true to yourself and to each other.
In Light and Love.
🌀Taking It In
So many of us are learning how to love people without fixing them.
How to stay connected without controlling outcomes.
How to honor difference without pulling away.
The Council’s reminder is simple, and not always easy.
Unconditional love does not mean tolerating someone.
It means allowing them to be fully themselves without needing them to change for our comfort.
This is harder than it sounds. Most of us were taught that love means managing, fixing, or enduring.
But real love starts with presence, not control.
This doesn’t mean every relationship is meant to last forever. Some are purpose-bound. Some walk with us for a lifetime.
But when a bond is real, it leaves an imprint.
And when we gather in honesty and intention, something larger moves through us.
Unity doesn’t erase individuality. It amplifies it.
🌱 SimpleShift
Today, honor one bond that has carried you through darker seasons.
Send a message.
Share a meal.
Sit quietly together.
You don’t need to say anything profound.
Light returns through connection.
Test the Shift 10% at a Time
If the unity in this message helped create new clarity, connection, or income, you’re invited to share ten percent of the value you felt. I’m deeply grateful for your support, which helps me keep sharing these messages.
Join the Conversation
Who in your life helps you feel more like yourself?
One word or one name is enough.
When we stand together, even quietly, the way forward begins to show itself.
💫 In Love and Light,
Merdhin Wylde
I am so happy to see and read the Council's message. The connection with others and the unity felt and shared to me is just as important as breathing. This point was brought in clarity to me last summer. I was on a vacation by myself for 2 weeks and realized how disconnected I felt with people and my family and friends. I made an effort to connect with strangers on my trip but still felt alone. I started to realize the depth of connections with friends and family I do have and the essential importance of that. Sharing is important in helping us to grow and connect and positively impacting the lives of others. I was reminded of the power of connection last week when a colleague let me know how meaningful my connection with her was and that is was healing. There are no words to express truly how meaningful this was to me. We are social creatures and meant to share. We tell each other the stories of our lives and events that impact us. We bond with these stories. I am truly blessed to have the friends and family I have. My friends are my family and deeply love each one of them for who they are.